Abundance Tip: How To Get Rid of Envy

Is there any envy hidden in your money closet?
Are there place where you just feel someone else doesn't deserve
the prosperity you see them enjoying?
Do you feel smarter than many of the people you know who are wealthy?
Do you feel you are a very good person who works to help make the world
better, yet other people seem to receive more abundance than you?
If any of the above statements ring true,
it's time for you to wake up financially.

You see, there is actually a very short answer to all of the above statements.
What is it?
This simple truth:
Your abundance has absolutely NOTHING to do with anyone else.
It is between you and your Creator alone.
No one but you can put prosperity thoughts in your mind.
No one but you can put poverty thoughts in your mind.
No one but you can take those thoughts out.

Other people who have created abundance in their life are to be commended,
not envied, despised or ridiculed -
unless you choose to stay away from True Abundance.
I'm assuming that's not why YOU'RE here.
You're here because you want to live a full, rich, prosperous life.
You're here because you want to experience the grandest adventure you can while on this blue abundant planet.
You want to make the world a better and wealthier place for everyone.
You are here because you are part of the answer.
You are one of the ones destined for True Abundance.
Because you came here with the intent to be of grand service.

Beneath any envy of someone else's wealth lies one of several reasons:

Self-Worth issues:
You feel "I'm not as good (smart, talented, you name it) as they are"
Answer. YES YOU ARE!

Self-Respect Issues:
You think others must be lucky or destined for success.
Answer. Yes, they are. But...so are you.

Self-Empowerment Issues:
You don't know what to do to create Abundance so you are jealous of what others have.
Answer. You have Abundant power within. Every bit as much as the wealthiest person in the world.

When you can look at the Abundance of others and realize, they created it,
and you can too...
an amazing calmness comes over you.
There can be no jealousy when you feel equally as worthy of wealth as anyone else.
There is no longer any competition.
You realize that creating wealth is not a competitive event.
It is a choice.
And with your own choice, come a deep contentment.
Now when you see the abundance of others, there will be a knowing smile on your face.
The pain of envy will be removed by the joy of knowing the truth about prosperity.

Your Abundance Affirmation:
"I am content with the abundance of others."

"5 Cheering Strategies to Help You Through the Holidays!"

Here are "5 Great Cheering Strategies to Help You Through the Holidays." These strategies are all adapted from the book by Terri Marie, "Your Inner Cheerleader.".

In a nutshell, the short Christmas Rush version is:

1. Start the Season with a Big Kick-Off.
Do you really celebrate the start of the winter holiday season with a noteworthy and memorable event of any kind? Or do you just slide into it? Sliding into a holiday can be a disaster. You'll feel better if you give yourself a distinct starting point - a Christmas Game Kick off - in fact that's a great idea. Have some sort of ceremony or little ritual that sets the season in motion. Put the intent out there for what you want to experience. See that result. Whether you do this through sitting quietly with music and a candle or have a bunch of friends over to sing and dance (kind of what like the Native Americans do) - celebrate the start of Christmas. It will make the end and the whole journey there so much more precious.

2. "Negative Christmas Cheers" work just as well as positive ones but Christmas Cheerleaders don't use them.
Don't tell yourself or especially others (and spread the fear) how stressed you are, overwhelmed, frustrated, annoyed or worried about the holidays. (I am equally guilty of this my friends. Why do you think I wrote this book?) Negative thoughts are certainly going to pop up during Christmas but burst those negative cheers with an onslaught of Christmas cheer. Cheers like "Isn't it wonderful we have Christmas to celebrate?" Isn't this a beautiful time of the year?" "Look at how excited children are. How can I be more like that and spread joy?" There are a million wonderful Christmas cheer thoughts floating around. Turn your receiver on to hear them.

3. Build lots of positive energy. Here are two ideas to build more positive Christmas energy. One of the ways is the extreme mood changer of music. Of all music, I believe Christmas Music is generally the most positive, uplifting, cheery and poignant of all music. I love the Nutcracker Suite and so many other great pieces of Christmas heart touching music.

Another idea to build more positive energy is Giving. Where can you give this Christmas? Nothing with fill your heart faster than true heartfelt giving. Not obigational giving, but heart-urged giving. That is a secret of the meaning of all life.

4. Remember it's Just a Game. Remember it's Just a Holiday. Put it in perspective. All moments are equally valuable in life. In a month this will all be over. And then that new, fresh, never-lived-before moment should be special.

5. After the Game - Celebrate! When Christmas is done and over, have a celebration too. Do you really celebrate all your preparation, game time and the big plays you made during the holiday games? Try it. Raise the cheer again. Look back on the season. Mark the high points, the struggles. Laugh about them. Toast the entire Game of Christmas. You are part of all the love. Never forget that!

And so in the spirit of the holiday...
Hip Hip Hooray Christmas!
Hip Hip Hooray all other Winter holidays!
Hip Hip Hooray You!
Hip Hip Hooray Everyone!
And not least of all... Hip Hip Hooray God!

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Strategy Session For Manifesting the "Big Vision" for your Life and Business

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These potent strategies also helped me produce over 30 documentaries.

Just as I make and design a film to be a visually stunning creation
that causes a change in the viewer in 90 minutes or less,
a strategizing session will empower you to set the intent
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On this call, we will create the plan, the vision, the motivation,
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Imagine how good you'll feel when you clearly see the
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while still other beliefs are those other people have "given" you.

What you need to understand is that all these beliefs are
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******************************************
Love and blessings,

Terri Marie

DEAL WITH IT

Some people sweep things under the rug when things get difficult
or they don't want to deal with something unpleasant.
They think no one will notice,
but it is really hard not to trip over a bumpy rug.

Instead of trying to make a deal with what makes you uncomfortable -
just deal with it. Problems swept under the rug tend to multiply.
It seems as though time expands problems the longer those problems are avoided.

I heard a story long ago that if you need to learn something,
or a lesson in life, first life sends you a gentle whisper, a hint.
Next life send you a brick.
Then, if you still don't get it... life send you a Mack truck,

Unfortunately to say, I've had the Mack Truck.
It's not pretty but I won't do that again.
I've learned to listen to the hints and suggestions of
the universe before I get clobbered.

I've also learned that the quicker you handle things,
the quicker they are over. Gone. Ka put.

So my best advice when things get really uncomfortable
is to deal with them now.

Here are 3 Suggestions for When You Want
to Sweep Something Under the Rug:

1. Ask "What am I avoiding?"
If you want something to go away, you are avoiding something
that you think might be painful. Just being aware of that pain
can bring relief. Just "seeing" it is no longer avoiding it.

2. Ask if this type of scenario has happened before?
What would it take to keep it from happening again?
A different decision?
A different action?
A different choice.?
A different response?
Note the word "different" has to be there to be effective.

3. Be brutally honest. Ask "What am I afraid to say, or do?"
Answer this question and you most likely will have your answer.

Having no messes "under the rugs" is a great way
to free up energy in your life.
You'll be much better able to reach your goals.
No more tripping up your life.
You'll walk on a much smoother path to success.

Get rid of the broom.
Let life itself sweep you off your feet!

Terri Marie

Hidden Treasures

The world continues to astonish me.
Having traveled around the beautiful Southwest
and Coast of California in between a
huge series of business meetings,
I found myself awed, astonished and refreshed.

This beautiful photo was taken along Hwy. 101
in the fog. If my battery hadn't been used up
by all the other great shots I was taking
I would have shared a video with you.

What intrigues me is most people drive
right by this place!

Is there something in your life that you
are "Driving right by?" Our greatest treasures
are usually right under our noses.

And that is often the last place we look.

There are 3 ways to find a hidden treasure in your life.


1. You Have to Be Open to Knowing What You Love.

If you really look within, you KNOW what turns you on.

You KNOW what gives you a high on life

You KNOW what makes you special because of
how you appreciate this trait in yourself.


2. Ask for Directions.

I had to ask a forest ranger about the above site
along the road. That's why I have that beautiful
shot above of the waterfall. But to see a hidden
treasure inside you, you may have to ask yourself
what it is.

You may have to ask God, or a friend,
but ask. Ask what your gift is.
Ask what hidden treasures you are meant to see and
bring to life. When you go to a restaurant you ask
for food. When you go to the doctor you ask for treatment.
When you go for your dreams, ask the person,
or Source at the highest level you can.

3. Pay Attention.

When you ask, an answer is always given.
Sometimes it appears hidden in clues.
Sometimes it is clear directions on what to do.
But whatever it is, pay attention after you have asked,
because the answer is right there.
Staring you in the face.
And that my friend is your hidden treasure.

When you find a hidden treasure in your own life,
you too will be awed.
You will be astonished and grateful.
And that hidden treasure will refresh you beyond compare.

May you take at least one of the steps this week
and allow yourself to see that beautiful hidden
treasure inside. And then please share it.
We love to see the treasure within others.

Your friend,

Terri Marie

The Waiting Game is Over

My mother is blind.
She told me the hardest thing about being blind is having to wait.
She has to wait for someone to read something to her.
She has to wait for people to take her places.
She can't just drive to the store anymore whenever she wants to go.

My mom can see just a teeny bit out of the corner of her eye
with a magnifying glass. But then my mom's magnifying glass broke.
It's not only the loss of vision then that becomes a problem.
Thinking of something that needs to be done, and being able to
immediately do something about it, is not an option for her.
My mom has to wait.

When my dad looked at my mother's magnifying glass,
he discovered it needed batteries. Now my mom had to
wait again for my dad to go to the store because of course,
my mom can't drive anymore.

Well, I take that back.
She can still drive.
She just can't see where she's going.

Look at all the lessons my mother is learning.
There are so many gifts she is building in herself.
My mother isn't very pleased with learning these
particular lessons, but I think her soul is very pleased with her.

She is learning:

Patience.

Respecting other people's time

Interdependence. (This is from a very independent woman
who packed five kids in a car and took them cross-country and back by herself.)

Faith. My mother is learning that each situation will eventually resolve itself

Resourcefulness. My mom has to do something else in the meantime.

I told mom that this goes on all the time in business.
For instance, I told her that I'll make a phone call.
Then I'll often have to wait for someone to return it.
Perhaps I need a product or a part or a service.
Now I have to wait until someone can deliver it.
If I need to do an interview and can't get it done
on my schedule, I end up waiting until it does work out.

Life isn't totally a Burger King, have-it-your-way Day.
The ride of life is sometimes smooth. But sometimes life
appears to be on a siesta break. Don't worry about it.
JUST WAIT A MINUTE

Waiting in the line of life can be fun.
You get to do other things than what you planned.
Maybe those things are even better than what you had planned.
Maybe life is telling you that you are working too hard.
Do something else. Your turn will come again.
Things usually come even quicker that way.

I have found that when you get a "waiting" signal there
is a great gift, "waiting" for you, just like when you had to
wait for your Christmas gifts on Christmas morning.
Once you get the message of the "wait", life usually picks up and flows again.

Let me give you an example.
Things are going along fine in life.
Then life stops. No matter what you do, or try,
life doesn't seem to want to go in that direction.
It appears to be stalled.

You've Got 2 Choices

1. Life doesn't WANT you to go in that direction. Of course you could try anyway.
I, however, having tried doing that - fighting life's natural direction and guidance -
found it does not work very well. I would NOT recommend it.

2. You wait until life gets all the things it's working on in place.
Then you can go ahead and get green lights all the way.

The trouble with waiting is that you don't know how long you'll have to wait.
When you first start waiting, the waiting doesn't appear to have an end.
But I guess if waiting had a time limit, it wouldn't be waiting;
it would be a schedule. If you knew someone was going to call
you back on Thursday at 3:00PM, you'd go about life and
not worry about it. I'd say, knowing that it's all being orchestrated,
just go about life anyway.

Don't wait. Live full now.
When the time is right, the "awaited" thing arrives as it should.

TO WAIT TO WAIT
IT SEEMS TO BE LATE
I'D RATHER HAVE IT NOW!

BUT GOD'S PLANNED TIME
IS RIGHT ON THE DIME
IT'S DELIVERED WITH A WOW!


Terri Marie

"It's All About Men"

No, I'm not talking about all the publicity with "Two and a Half Men"
but the millions of men we should be thanking this month.

I'd say June is Men's Month. Fathers everywhere finally get a
chance to be thanked and celebrated. It's high time.

Men's role as provider is often being changed to protector, encourager
and partner as we move forth in recreating the social world.
But one thing I've found out about men -
They LOVE to be appreciated.
There seems to be a huge lack of appreciation vibes
going around to all the guys in this world.

I say it's time to get that started again.
Thank the men in your life.
Care about them.
Appreciate them.
Then watch them glow like that knight in shining armor
I just happened to find above.

Here are Some Ways to Show Appreciation to the Men You Care About.
1. Watch a movie they like.
2. Compliment them on something you admire about them.
3. Whenever they do something nice - be sure to tell them. THANK them.
4. Smile at them.
5. Hug them.
6. Calm down around them. They pick up your energy more than you think.
7. Let them go off and have some guy fun without complaining.
8. Remind them of some fun times you had with them.
They love to reminisce more than you think.

And of course there are a few other ways too. :)

Need to send someone a Father's Day Card?
This will perk up the day for all the special men in your life.
Father's Day Movie Card
*Fre-e to send to all the dads you love and cherish.
http://youtu.be/cYDzY70Iu1A

The Hero and the Cheerleader

How to Create a Winning Combination
in Your Game
Part 1.


Which came first the hero or the cheerleader? I talk about both the hero and the cheerleader in my book Be the Hero of Your Own Game.

Unlike the chicken and the egg, I believe the cheerleader comes first, And I will tell you why. This game of life is getting VERY intense right now. And it will become even more so - like the game musical chairs where it becomes faster and faster and it's harder to get a seat.

As the game speeds up, a cheerleader will help keep you focused, keep reminding the subconscious that you are there to win the game and exactly what steps to do to win it with each cheer that is cheered. The hero takes the action.

The MA Formula

You need both Motivation and Action to succeed.
M+A=Success.
MA creates massive success.
If MA ain't happy nobody wins!


I think an even better description of Hero is the word itself.
Hero is both "He" and "Her".
It is a marriage of the male and the female.
Heroes need to be a bit bigger than life to win.
And every one of you is much bigger than the game of life.

Traits of Heroes

*Heroes know the value of time

*Heroes keep going

*Heroes surround themselves with players better than they are

*Heroes step up to the plate


Traits of Cheerleaders

*They have lots of positive energy

*They promote their teams

*They do only one cheer at a time

*They Motivate and encourage others

*Take risks

*They wow the crowd


When you give strong positive message in an upbeat manner the way a cheerleader does your subconscious mind which spurs the hero to action will find a way to bring the ball of opportunity to you.
YOU WILL WIN MORE.

Terri Marie